In the midst of the hustle and bustle of life and inherent risk attached, we need to find ample time to invest in the lives of those that are very dear to our hearts. I was inspired to share the piece below sent to my via email from a friend because someone out there need a nugget like this to spark-off something new as we end the very first quarter of this year. Did I hear you say – ‘So 3 months is already gone in 2008!!!’…how far? how well have you utilised the resources (money, people, intelligence, network of friends & associates, goodwill, different forms of leverages e.t.c.) to move you steps closer to your set goal for this year? It is time to do a recap of stewards of your time in the last 2184 hours!!!! If you are well inline, give yourself a treat and reload for greater challenges next quarter, but if you have some shortcomings, the truth is there is no excuse for failing…get up, refocus and go on…
“He that falls and refuses to stand up is not fit to be in the company of the living.”
Enjoy this short conversation between a father and his son and have a fulfilling new quarter.
A small touching story mainly for professionals. ..
A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.
SON: “Daddy, may I ask you a question?”
DAD: “Yeah sure, what is it?” replied the man.
SON: “Daddy, how much do you make an hour?”
DAD: “That’s none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?” the man said angrily.
SON: “I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?”
DAD: “If you must know, I make Rs.100 an hour.”
SON: “Oh,” the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: “Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.50?”
The father was furious, “If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior.” The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy’s questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn’t ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy’s room and opened the door.
“Are you asleep, son?” He asked.
“No daddy, I’m awake,” replied the boy.
“I’ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier” said the man.
“It’s been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you.. Here’s the Rs.50 you asked for.”
The little boy sat straight up, smiling. “Oh, thank you daddy!” He yelled.
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
“Why do you want more money if you already have some?” the father grumbled.
“Because I didn’t have enough, but now I do,” the little boy replied.
“Daddy, I have Rs.100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.”
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
Morale
It’s just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that Rs.100 worth of your time with someone you love. If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
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Interesting piece. Time with family is really important. keep writing….we are reading
The things that are most precious in life are FREE. But they often need to be handle with tender care. When they are lost, money cannot buy them back.
This post reminds one of the story of Prophet Eli in the Bible. He was a good man of God, but he failed as a father (maybe he was too busy in the temple). Eventually, the fact that he had lost his family while being busy, wrecked his ministry and life. May the Lord help us.
Thanks for sharing this. It is a good reminder to all those that have family (do not ask me if some do not have family! Only ask me if I have and I care about them
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@NaijaEcash
You have made a very good observation here citing the case of the prophet Eli. Its a classical example of what may befall one who ignores to pay attention to the most important aspect/part of his/her life. Thanks for commenting.